How have you felt after being spanked?
Is it different depending on the context in which you have been spanked?
For me:
* After a disciplinary spanking I feel relief, forgiveness, focus and ready to start out again on the best footing.
* After a " just because" spanking I feel settled, centered, understood, released and very calm internally but outwardly energised.
* After a " good girl " spanking I feel like skipping.
* After an explicitly erotic spanking I feel a wiggly and insatiable naughtiness :)
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5 years ago
9 comments:
Hi Olivia,
You pretty much touched on exactly how I feel after each of those kinds of spanking. I'd also say, though, that after a disciplinary spanking, I do tend to get a similar feeling as a "just because" spanking, of being understood, centered, and loved.
"Good girl" spankings for me tend to lead me straight into wanting an erotic spanking...or an erotic anything!
Great questions, I hope some others respond, too!
Hi Nic
Thank you for sharing how you feel!
I'd agree that in some instances there is definitely an overlap from the array of feelings any one type of spanking can evoke.
I think all of them leave me feeling loved, and even if the erotic charge of some of them was not expressed at the time, enjoying reliving it together afterwards on the telephone for instance, is another great " after " feeling I hadn't mentioned!
:)
Hi Olivia,
I usually feel relaxed, happy, and reconnected to my man after a spanking. I also feel more energetic and eager to get on with doing little things around the house that are my responsibility. I guess I feel more obedient.
We don't differentiate between types of spankings. They're always erotic.
Hugs,
Hermione
Thank you for responding hermione!
I think there is probably always an erotic undercurrent to all of the spankings that my Disciplinarin and I share, but there are definitely times when it is more of a soft whisper than others.
Olivia X
Hi Olivia,
*DD-spankung, I feel sore.
*just-because-spanking and erotic-spanking, I always feel sexy and beautiful, because I know that my red-hot backside turns my husband and myself on :)
But, tell me please, what a good-gils-spanking is.Olny know a naughty-girl-spanking, which is for me, the same as a DD-spanking.
Kisses Apple
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Hello apple and thank you for your comments.
A 'good girl' spanking probably has overlap with a
' just because ' spanking but what differentiates them in my mind is the reasons that they happen. A ' just because ' may happen when my Disciplinarian senses that I am a bit uppity or unsettled but also perhaps when he would just like to spank my bottom, and I love the feeling of him just choosing to do this, the feeling of pleasure he gets from it and the connection with my submissive nature that this gives me.
Whereas a ' good girl ' spanking is directly given as feedback for having done something well. This may be that I have stuck well to all of my targets in my report each week, or it may be that I have made him proud in some way ( I LOVE that feeling )... or it may simply be that he wants to share a joyful feeling with his girl that day, and this is where it overlaps with an erotic or a \ just because ' spanking.
It all suddenly feels like labeling them in such a way is complicating things - I think when I first wrote this post I was just in awe of the many different feelings that being disciplined and spanked created in me and was interested in the patterns between the different contexts and then subsequent feelings that followed.
I have looked at your blog apple and will continue to do so! And you have a lovely bottom :) apple is a very suitable name as you have what my Disciplinarian would describe as an ' apple bottom ' :)
Olivia X
I generally feel extremely happy and excited, also I'm on a high, like I can't sleep for the whole night. But I've only had 3 spankings, I'm waiting for some good dd spankings!
Olivia
Just found your site. I really enjoy your writing. I can relate to the feeligns you described. DD is a wonderful journey. It is always interesting and educational to read what works for some folks. I am 10 months into DD and loving every minute of it. Check out my site when you get a chance http://spankeitaliangal.wordpress.com/. I added your site to my blogroll. Thank you for writing.
Ciao, I Gal
Hi Michelle and spanked_Italian_girl.
I have left messages on both of your blogs.
Best wishes
Olivia X
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